Guided Reading Material
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
by Jessica Fern
In this booklet you will find:
Over 60 pages of keynotes, reflective prompts, and impactful quotes from Jessica Fern's "Polysecure". This companion booklet serves to join you on your reading journey as you discover the impact of relationship attachment styles. While the book is marketed (and incredibly helpful) for those who engage in consensually non-monogamous and/or ethically non-monogamous relationships, it is a book that will benefit anyone who wants to form more secure relationships, regardless of relationship structure.
Orgasmic Blueprint: Tools for Pleasure, Desire and Consent
by Matthias Schwenteck
In this booklet you will find:
Over 30 pages of keynotes, reflective prompts, and impactful quotes from Matthias Schwenteck's "Orgasmic Blueprint". This companion booklet was developed to guide you as you unveil how you access pleasure. This book is a goldmine of activities and techniques that will facilitate the mending and deepening of your somatic and cognitive connection. Allowing you to develop both a better understanding of how you receive pleasure and the language to communicate those new discoveries.
The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self Love
by Sonya Renee Taylor
In these companion slides you will find:
Over 50 pages of keynotes, reflective prompts, and impactful quotes from Sonya Renee Taylor's "The Body is Not an Apology". These companion slides will accompany you on your radical self-love reading journey. This book is a wonder and will revolutionize how you see your body. Daring to question the impact that our over-consumptionist and capitalistic society has on our self-worth and capacity for self-love.
Educational Booklets
Reclaiming Your Sexuality
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
In this booklet you will find:
Information about anatomical structures and how they pertain to pleasure, avenues to reframe sex, how to rediscover your desires, tips and tricks to make vulnerable conversations less scary, and more. This booklet fights against the phrase "use it or lose it". Packed with visual and textual information, step-by-step instructions for activities to experiment with, 15 sexual wellness resources, as well as my personal recommendations, this booklet will guide you through reclaiming your sexuality.
Lube, Glorious Lube, Slick, Wet & Inviting
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Come and dive in!
This booklet is a deep dive into the fun and slippery world of personal lubricants. With 16 pages jam-packed with information about biochemical processes, the compatibility of lubes, how different ingredients might interact with your body, and more, this booklet will help guide you as you find the lubricants that fit best with your body and your sexual play. This booklet takes the potentially daunting task of chemicals and biological processes and conveys the information in an approachable way. So that you are best equipped to navigate the murky waters of lubricant buzzwords and find the right lube for you.
Quick Guide to Sex Toys
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Being an adult doesn't mean you stop playing with toys!
A quick and dirty guide introducing you to the beautiful, creative, and fun world of sex toys! This 13-page informational booklet is filled with everything you need to know to confidently step into any adult store. Detailing the differences between internal vs. external toys, how the different materials can interact with your body (and lubricants!), and a brief look at toys made for that spicier side of life. This booklet will be your guide the next time you find yourself lost in the ever-growing sea of dildos and vibrators.
Just Peachy: Intro to Anal Play
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Oh my God Becky, look at her butt!
This booklet is great for those who are looking to begin their 'bootyful' journey exploring anal play. "Just Peachy" is one of my shorter booklets, with only 9 pages. But don't be fooled, this gal is jam-packed with the information to give you the best chance at a fun, and pleasurable beginning anal experience. Breaking down step by step the anatomy of pleasure, how to prepare, as well as some personal recommendations, all to give you the best chance at success when exploring that peachy treat!
The History & Importance of Pride Month
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Say it loud, Gay is proud!
This booklet is for those who want a quick read into the history of Pride in the United States. It explores the recent history (from 1969 to 1990) of Pride, why it is important to celebrate, and how to celebrate if you don't have access to a parade. Additionally, there are some resources to explore queer history and culture, as well as references to sources cited.
BDSM for the Curiously Kinky
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
This booklet is for:
The good girls, boys, and toys that want to adventure into that spicier side of life. This in-depth 16-page booklet will give you the information you need to start playing with those fun whips and chains. You will find information on the history of BDSM, how to explore power dynamics, the relationship between gender and BDSM identities, the three acts of BDSM, and more! As a big advocate for informed decisions and RACK (risk-aware and consensual kink), this booklet provides the basics on how to play safely, how altered states of consciousness can affect behaviour, and what to look out for as a submissive, dom, or switch when playing to ensure that everyone has some good kinky fun ♥
Masturbation
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Wax on, Whack off
The topic of masturbation lies close to my heart - even with the negative connotations that the word holds. This booklet serves to break the social taboos and misinformation around masturbation, as well as provide advice on how to start exploring the ways that you can give your body pleasure. This is a great little booklet that works in tandem with the "Introduction to Sex Toys" booklet as well as a companion to "Reclaiming your Sexuality".
Orgasm Control
Ariadna Rodriguez Barclay, CHSE
Nice guys finish last ♥
I have noticed within the last year that conversations around edging and orgasm control have spiked. Now this might as well be indicative of my own circles, but I figured it would be good fun to write up a short booklet to guide you through the world of orgasm control and provide fun activities to try out for both orgasm denial and forced orgasms.